Type A × Type ABlood type compatibility
Two careful people being careful at each other. Comfortable, considerate, and capable of going years without either one making a move.
For entertainment only. Blood type compatibility (ketsueki-gata aishō) is a popular Japanese cultural belief and is not supported by science. Please don’t use it to make real relationship decisions.
What two Type As recognise in each other
Each recognises the other immediately — the same over-preparation, the same apologising for things that need no apology, the same private ledger of small social debts. There's relief in being understood without explaining. There's also the strange experience of watching your own habit from the outside and finding it a bit much.
What works
Nothing gets dropped. Birthdays are remembered, messages are answered, plans are confirmed twice. The considerateness is mutual and unforced, and neither person has to translate themselves. For two types who spend most of their lives adapting to louder people, that is genuinely restful.
Where it breaks
Nobody decides anything. Both wait for the other to state a preference, both say “whatever you'd like,” and the evening dissolves into politeness. Worse, neither raises problems — two people who avoid conflict produce a relationship with no mechanism for repair. It rarely explodes. It quietly stops.
By situation
- Dating — Sweet and stable, with a real risk of stalling before it starts. Someone has to go first, and neither wants to.
- At work — Meticulous output, slow decisions. Excellent for quality control; poor for anything needing a judgment call under time pressure.
- As friends — Deeply reliable and mutually low-demand. Can go quiet for months without damage.
One thing that helps
Agree that one of you names the restaurant, the date, and the problem — and rotate it. Politeness is not a decision-making system.
Every pairing
All ten combinations of A, B, O and AB — each page covers both points of view.
- A × O High
- A × AB High
- B × AB High
- A × B Tricky
- B × O Steady
- O × AB Steady
- A × A Steady
- B × B Steady
- O × O Steady
- AB × AB Steady
Prefer the grid? See the full 4×4 compatibility chart.